One giant leap forward! - Part 8

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I thought I did OK in the interaction.

I do not think OK covers it – you did great! You kept to the facts and stayed away from the spewings.
I would properly have gone furious and lost my mind!

IMO: She is going in circles and you haven’t heard the last of this yet! Hopefully Sandi will come by and advice you.
I think she will properly pull some of her previous things (sweet-talk, mini-skirt etc) on you shortly. I will properly be 2x4 because of writing this but that’s my thought.

A FEW THOUGHTS:
Consider telling her to speak/write in a proper language.
You did so well staying out of fighting! Perhaps consider a bit of validating to take the top off her spewings.
Instead of: It blows my mind that you blame me for all of your problems. Perhaps try: W, I am sorry you feel that way…… or likewise. You know the drill!

Hopefully I will get the kids this weekend and have a party for S2. I'm really missing them.

You need to get this settled so she can’t use the kids against you again. What can be done about this?

Oh, and do find the cats a new home quickly. One less problem!

I'm currently speaking with 3 women online and it's a lot of fun.

Sounds like you are enjoying your selves and taking a well-deserved break from sit!

All the best
F