Sorry this happened Tori.... made me deeply sad just reading it.
I was/kind of still am attending a "Recovery from Divorce/relationship fracture" class and on the first day she talked about how family and friends will end up "choosing sides" ...she said during her first divorce (she's had two), even other parents at PTA stopping speaking to her. So this is an unfortunate part of the process.

That's good you've taken the time to process it and see it as a positive for you and your growth in the future.

Hopefully the rest of his family will be more mature about it.

A thought that just came to me...is maybe she defriended you on facebook first b/c she doesn't want to hurt you with posts and pictures about the baby when he or she arrives?

Either way... it is unfortunate. Continue to stay strong!


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope