1st post. Bought DB book today. My wife asked for a D a month ago and like many others I am devestated and was doing many wrong things like being emotional, begging, questioning ect. I want to make things work and I think DB is the tool I need based on posts I have read with similar situations. Most of the advice I have gotten so far is to move on and I don't want to give up that easily.

Thanks for sharing your experiences