Hoping for Reconciliation after being Separated...

[chasingpavements]

Thanks Groov, and jp for your advice, just in the nick of time

We had our talk and things went smoothly. We each said our bit. jp, I stole what you did and asked if he would like me to just listen and he said yes, just listen. I listened to what he had to say and then told him my concerns and the solutions that I had come up with for my concerns.

We then talked about moving forward and how everything would play out, and what we would like to do next. We are going to keep doing IC, and continue on to do MC after a few more IC sessions. He had his first IC session and he said he felt a lot better afterwards. He said he talked the whole time during his visit for an hour and a half, and he was amazed since he is such a non-talker! lol.

Things seemed different between us. He seems to have had a change of heart. He kept complimenting me, which he hasn't done in many months, and he even kissed me. Caught me off guard a bit.

Now we are just going to ease back into things, without moving too fast. I feel ok, but kind of strange and different. Kind of strange to be at this point here and now, where life has taken so many different turns in the past year. Kind of a big whirlwind, and now the dust is settling.

Thanks for cheering me on,

-cp