One of the rules I've been following is this: If you don't know what to do, don't do anything. Probably a good enough plan for now.

That said, W and I have not had a serious talk about the D since she filed. Seems a little weird to not even talk about it. Of course she wants to move right into being old friends.


Me:52
Wife:49
Married 19 years
Son:16
Daughter:14
Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013
Wife moved out 2Jun13

W filed for D 22Sep13