One of the rules I've been following is this: If you don't know what to do, don't do anything. Probably a good enough plan for now.
That said, W and I have not had a serious talk about the D since she filed. Seems a little weird to not even talk about it. Of course she wants to move right into being old friends.
Me:52 Wife:49 Married 19 years Son:16 Daughter:14 Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013 Wife moved out 2Jun13