Angela, I agree with others, he is in turmoil right now. He is scarred and doesn’t know what to do. He probably thinks that he might have screwed up badly, but doesn’t want to admit it. I think you did great!
The best thing to do right now is to give him lots of space. It will also give you some time to process your feelings and decide for yourself what you want to do. Thinking of you. (((((hugs)))))
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state