I'm a little confused but did you ask her to be a part of yours and sons Thanks Giving? If you did I would recommend you back off. You are D already. But if they arrangement is for him to spend it with you I would contact the court.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”