Questions on the 37 rules and other advice...

[S4tk]

I am also in a strange position. When we left for Europe, we began renting our home out. It is currently under contract to renters. We have been back a month, and have been living with some of my extended family. Obviously this situation is awkward since our marriage is in crisis. It means that we don't have a "home" since we left ours in Europe, and cannot move back to the place we own in the States.

So we are looking to rent a place ASAP. The problem is that my wife wants to move there alone (or with the kids, but without me). I fear this will communicate to our daughter that I am the one "leaving" since the three of them will be in their place together and I will still be living with family.

Does anyone think any of this is important? If the 180's and separation don't lead back to restoration, I would hate to have our daughter misinterpret any of this as abandonment by me.

I know I've made two posts in a row with questions, sorry. I'm just at a time right now where there are critical decisions to make. I realize many people probably join this forum after separation - not in the midst of.

TB