WAS left, focusing on me, DB'ing like an amateur

[KdogGS]

I'm not going to answer it, I'll let it be until she contacts me.

I'm not going to push the division of finances either, I wanted to give her money so she doesn't feel trapped. We used mint.com in the past to track everything and for what I thought was healthy accountability. But in this situation, I'm thinking it'll be better if she has the choice to manage her own half of it or leave things as is. But I'll wait to hear from her before deciding for us both.