Exactly. I'm in the same boat right now. I know how confused my W is as she puts it, and staying even keel is the only thing that has help me get mentally stable again. Some times are harder than others depending on her actions, but I never thought I could feel this much better from a month ago. Good luck.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M