A hundred thousand disbelievers couldn't keep me on the ground I've invented a momentum that'll never slow me down I believe it 'cause I feel it and I shout it out loud I can I can I can so - Hedley
Tina825 ______________________ Wow Whiterose, sorry to hear that about your husband. It is very hard to wrap my head around it.
Thanks for the "awesome" comment. This morning he forgot to give me some money he owed, so I went to our lot (business) and he hugged me, I said, what are you doing? He said no matter what I love you and then tried to kiss me, I just took the money and walked away.
He then had S call me and ask if I was going to meet them for lunch, I told S, "No baby, Mom just ate not long ago" H then got on phone and said are you coming? I said "No, not today".
He's been texting all afternoon (I was shopping for skinny girl clothes - have lost 40lbs since last August) and I haven't responded.
Coaching was awesome, she gave me some great tips and advice and also told me whatever I'm doing is obviously working and to keep doing it. Gave me some homework for next session.
Went to visit best friend and she said, OMG, the old Tina is coming back! Made me feel good that I woke up with newfound strength, I actually sang in the shower this morning! LOL
Now, I'm getting ready to go out to eat and have a few drinks with my SIL. She's kinda going through the same thing with my husband's brother. Ironic, seems to happen during a certain season.
Hope you have a great evening. ------------------------------------------ WOW Tina. You're DBing is working! Good for you to be so strong. I've lost about 25lbs since this has all started.......also have built some defined muscular arms since much of the work I do is labour intensive. Heavy things H used to move around for me I have to do and I've stared working with decor companies, extra money, which is a lot of heavy lifting and moving. Haven't had money to buy new clothes but I wear mostly yoga pants and, although a little baggy, it's generally fitted. Lol. So great that your friend noticed that your old self is coming through.....that's a big thing I think.
Hope you enjoyed your evening. Sad about your SIL. I find more and more couples are splitting or having a really hard time. 2013 seems to be a year of turmoil. Ready for it to be done!
Have an enjoyable Sunday!!
RosaLinda
Good morning Rose. Boy your H's family is as nutzy as he is! Your SIL de-friending you on FaceBook after having such a lovely conversation, and then insulting your friend T is strange behavior. Maybe H told SIL how jealous he is of T, maybe that's why!
Have you heard anything from H about that check you gave him by mistake? I'm sorry you are so worried about money, but it's great that work put you back on today. Although a hike would have been nice too! Do your boys see H when you're working on the weekends? -------------------- Good Morning darling Linda. How are you feeling? The eyes ok? She knew H was jealous of T but I had explained to her that there was NOTHING going on and she even has a close male friend and understood we're just friends. She ended up messaging S18 to apologize and he explained it was a joke from a conversation made the night before. She said that she didn't like the comment but didn't know the context and would next time keep her opinions to herself. Well, gee, aren't we lucky?!?! You know, if you want to comment on someone's parenting, MAYBE you should talk to your brother lady!! Maybe other men wouldn't try to help me out if I had a partner I their upbringing!
Haven't heard a single peep about the cheque. Does he think I'll just forget about $385? I don't understand. But, boy oh boy, has he been busy with S18! H messaged S Friday night a "how's it going?" And S responded "Dad I'm tired of this crap going on. Just FYI aunt F unfriended all of us on FB. Did you see aunt c's comment on myFB post? And how is mom poisoning us. I would like you to explain that please" H "what are you talking about? The only fb post I saw was your aunt saying that your mom is more than capable of parenting you (I did not see that at all btw). Hey just FYI I'm tired of you venting on me. Give me a call when your off"
Ok A. Your his dad. You have caused turmoil and fear in our children. Guess what sweetheart, they get to vent on you!!!!!! B you're an idiot!!!
Anyway. They had quite the conversation Saturday am. S18 explained that he had overheard me talking to my lawyer and the comment that his lawyer had accused me of poisoning the kids. H said that all he had said was he was unsure what I have been saying and then asked if my lawyer was here (in my home because she's moved I you know!!!!!!) and recording the phone conversation. Paranoid much H? This is the second time he's accused someone of recording phone conversations. H accused me of being difficult and stalling and S said it takes a year. Things take time. NOW THIS ONE MADE ME ALMOST CALL HIM AND NEVER TO TALK TO MY CHILD AGAIN ..... H responded with it doesn't take this long "are you F'N stupid?" Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh S tried explaining the joke between himself and T but H agreed with his sister's comment. MAYBE if you feel your fatherhood is threatened you should step up to the plate H! S asked why he's trying to take everything. H said he had every right to take his tools and stuff for his place (no one is arguing the legality H it's the morality of it that is rubbing us all wrong. You left. Leave and start new the ). H said he's trying to set up a place so they can come visit....S said we don't want to visit you we want a dad home at night. (Broke my heart to hear that. Your son is crying out for you and guess H's answer) well, that's not happening so too bad. S said he never sees H. He works 2 mins away and never wants to do anything.....h said it was son's fault for making excuses that he's working. This was just some of what was said. I asked S not to talk to H for 12 hours for everyone to calm down but H called back about 20 mins after I left for work. Apparently it was ok. He didn't apologize for his comment and more a chit chat type conversation. Also, called S after work for more chit chat. This also about the time sil messaged S about T so I'm guessing H and SIL had a conversation. MIL's bday is Nov 1 so SIL invited S out for a dinner but S has to work. She asked if he worked 1, 2, and 3 and he had to say he does.
Not sure what to make of all of this. It seems to be coming to a head
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
