Originally Posted By: Mtnman
It's as if she expects me to be excited for her. I'm doing a nice job faking it.


I would validate her decision to do what she wants, but would not act excited about something that I felt was a poor choice.

"Well, if that's what you feel you need to do, then I wish you well."

If you're not excited then maybe she will start to second guess herself.

At some point she needs to own up to her poor decisions, right?

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl