I do let my mind wander still... I try to reign it in....but I do tend to assume the worst...Acc is right in that too. And that is not good for me. I know where it stems from. Its to think the worst so that I am less disappointed with the actual outcome. Well... that has not served me very well has it?
Busting, I do the same, so I get where you are coming from. It comes from fear of rejection, from fear of hurt. That's when we need to work through our fears rather than avoid them by making these assumptions and falling into catastrophic thinking. Hey, that's easier, right? But it's just another way of control...
Originally Posted By: bustingout
Its the remnants of the old me...where the emotional controls the rational.
Acceptance is the power.
Bingo...
Love u, dear friend! Glad to see you taking those steps towards building a new reality for you and your kids - and a safari... that is just amazing!
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Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
