Walking Down a Different Street

[RosaLinda]

Good for you DMR, for not fussing over W changing the radio station from a song you liked. Little victories add up over time. I thought it was a man thing, my H is in charge of the radio station AND heat no matter which of us is driving. And the TV remote.

"that being one of our biggest problems in our life together. Other than the... uh... you know.." Have you tried any casual touch with your wife? My DB coach Chuck suggested it - just a casual hand on H's arm or friendly pat on the shoulder, to get him used to me again. I felt like I was trying to tame one of TSquared's feral cats, but had finally gotten him to not flinching away from me. I have not attempted it since BD#3 last week, but if he doesn't leave me, maybe will start over. Maybe it would help your sitch too, not sure, but you could try it once then drop it if she freaks out!

If you're still in still in a cleaning-house-in-my-underwear mood, please feel free to come on over here to Long Island and move all the furniture you want