. g at that time was also hurting them. I have to agree with that.
He wanted to be friendly with me, for the sake of the kids but wanted no R beyond that. Leaving was painful for him in many ways and he couldn't risk being drawn back in only to have history repeat itself and the kids be hurt all over again. I'm not trying to be an apologist for WASs, this is just what happened in our lives.
I guess this is relative to Acc's post also, don't create things in your mind to explain what your H is doing. We don't know what is in their mind. Accepting what is without the story is difficult but it's the only way out.
I wish you the best.
I think I just addressed this on my post as well. That H doesn't want to be in the same position three years down the road, hurting me, hurting him and the kids once more, if he comes back for the wrong reasons.
We only can bring to the table the way we look at things and the way we experience things. Even when others try to explain, we cannot help but look through our own filtres, fogged by our own thoughts.
So, no matter how much we know someone, we can't really know them. Sure we can predict on past behaviour, but we only have to look at ourselves to see that past behaviour is not always the best predictor of future behaviour.
Love you Busting...glad you had an awesome time on the safari!! So Jealous!!
