She is planning for a vacation in brazil with our minor son for Christmas I asked who else is going with her and details. There are some travel advisories. I sent it to her interms of safty as its a high crime country. She is going with her mom and brother. I was fine and she asks me to sign papers. I proposed the thanks giving with my parents and son. She says she had already made plans. As per our orders odd years my son is suppose to be with me for thanks giving. It's so frustrating to deal with this person. In the past she asked me to not take my son to my parents for a long weekend. I backed off, she is just repeating it again. Instead she proposes my parents to visit her. She again thinks that I am threatening her if I asked her for thanks giving. I said we have a court order and joint custody to balance and make things fair for both parents. I said I can't deal with this non sense any more and asked her not to exploit me , she says she doesn't care and would like to go to court. I just left the conversation there.


M - 39W- 38
M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths
Son - 2 yr day care
S - 9/12
Divorced- 10/10/13
Visits with son other week
Working on myself & son,co-parent,change,assertive,alpha/beta, entrepeurneur,care,heal,centered