Confused about Detaching Part 2

[willbwell]

don't accept the blame for his 'needing'ow. of course he will put the blame on you because he doesn't want to look inside at himself.it took me awhile to realize when my h was being angry at me that this was a cover for his guilt. I don't allow his anger to bother me anymore.
I took h back 2 times with no conditions. I mean I knew he was having sex with ow.( he told me) Now that I think about it, I feel I disrespected myself. I was so eager to put this pain behind me. what shame I felt having to go to my dr to be tested.
You need to be a strong confident womaman.
I know how hard it is.