THX, thank you for sharing. Its ditto for me. The experimenting with the ring. Everytime h comes over I look to see if he has his on. still does, although not sure it matters.
I had decided I will keep mine on until the last paper is signed.

I too want to have 'the talk' I just want questions answered. I don't want to continue to wonder. I know in my heart though he will see this as pressure from me. It is hard to drop it.

I read the book 'uncoupling'. I think I realized h has been long gone before the bomb drop. we have been separated well over a year now. h wants to move on. very little I can do at this point. h knows how I feel.

keep posting


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13