Some of our spouses just have to see it though, or they'll always harbor regrets/second thoughts. IDK if your W is one of them, but maybe you might? She did already file.
If you do decide to have the talk, (I think I would) just make sure to let her know that you'll give her D if that's what she's sure she wants. That way you're telling her how you feel, but still honoring her feelings. May the DB gods be with you.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
