I Love My Wife - Don't give up. Keep DBing, keep working on you. Ultimately you can not control what she does and you need to accept that. It's harder than you think. And she has to let you see the kids. That's a given. I would suggest you start interviewing lawyers in case it comes down to that.

Actions speak louder than words. Talk is cheap. So stick to the DB suggestions and that of the vets on this board. I went from my H wanting a D right now, to now he loves me and doesn't want to push anything within a matter of weeks.

Keep your chin up!

Me-49, H-45
M - 4, Together 9
SS-9
Bomb Dropped - 9/12
Separation - 10/12
Reconcile -2/13
Separation - 8/2013
Reconcile - 10/2013
Separation - 12/2013
Reconcile - 2/14
Separate - 5/14
H Filed D - 8/14