Hi Preggo. It is comforting to know others understand by situation but heartbreaking to know the paid everyone is going through. He's affair started when I was pregnant (in fact he left me in the hospital alone for six hours the day after S1 was born to hang out with OW and coworkers at a bar). It still makes me so angry that what should have been the happiest time in my life was ruined by H.
Does anyone's mention OW or OM in conversation like it is no big deal. H has told me two stupid stories about OW and her kids. He just works it into normal conversation. Why does he do this? To remind me of the affair? Because he still clearly does not understand what he is actually doing with her (he still claims that they are just friends). Is this normal for a WAS in affair. I did not argue with him about it. Just not sure what I should do or to just do nothing if he keeps doing it. We are pretty amicable at the moment so I am trying pick by battles carefully if not at all.
