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Hey all, been lurking lately. Nothing much has been new with me. Mainly still GAL. I finally rejoined the gym on Tuesday after being away for a few months due to lightheadedness. (I was cleared by the doctors, my body is just not used to being 39% smaller.)

I have a court date Thursday. I was speaking with my T on Thursday and I predicted that my STBX would be texting me over the weekend. Sure enough, I heard from her last night. We still do not be in agreement over a settlement, but she suggested we get together to talk about it. We may possibly do this Sunday night, but I don't expect it to actually happen. I feel pretty proud that I did not respond negatively to her antagonism and baiting in her texts. Now I need to decide what to wear to the meeting if it does happen. (One of my 180s is dressing better.)

On the whole, I've been trying not to think about my sitch over the past few weeks and concentrating on myself. Largely feel numb about it. Not sure if that's healthy or not, but that's where I am.