Angela, Just listen to what he has to say and do not agree to anything right now. If he's trying to push you to agree to something, advise him that you really do need some time to think about things. Don't try to change his mind because his perception of things will be different from yours and try not to argue w/him. The calmer and quieter you are, the more info you will get from him.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
