Pud, NLT & BF - thank you all for dropping by with your support.

I had intended to start a new thread today - on a positive, moving forward basis. Unfortunately I received a bill in the post today for property taxes. my xSO has, to date, been paying all the household bills. It would seem the situation is a changing...

Pity that he couldn't see fit to communicate the matter to me in advance of his actions. a heads up would have been nice.

The bill shows a change from multiple to single occupance - dated from the day of his wedding!!! Something else he has conveniently forgotten to tell me about.

I was raging inside- my first thought was to find his car and paint F**K U all over it in black spray paint. However I have sat quietly for a few hours, written an e-mail (which I have not sent) and made some decisions about my future.

Perhaps the new, positive thread will start tomorrow. Until then I will quietly think of some other revenge tactics I can submit him to... DB!