.... I think I'm going to seek IC next week to help me. I just need more support. This community is great, but I need a face.
Great plan. I got an IC a few months in to W's MLC, and my counselor really helped me in a lot of ways. An unexpected benefit, is that I actually look forward to counseling sessions, and it is nice to have anything in your life that is worth looking forward to right now.
I should mention that I hired a female IC of my age, because I really wanted a woman's insight into what a woman like my W might be thinking/going through.
Me:52 Wife:49 Married 19 years Son:16 Daughter:14 Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013 Wife moved out 2Jun13
