Really important to remember the things you've learned. Most important, be the man you want to be.
You know J, I feel like you've been holding your breath all this time. I'd like to see you let it out.
Just go with it, ya know?
Your family is back together. You've grown a lot. She hopefully has, too.
There is still a lot of work to be done. Without a doubt. But, this weekend, put all the crap aside, the worry aside and just enjoy what you've accomplished. Enjoy your family.
Still plenty of time to work through all the other things. Today, be joyful. Be positive. Show her that you can be.