He makes double what I make so he takes care of his own debts and bills since he left. I cover my own expenses as well. He recently asked me for money when he ran low...I gave him $50. The week after BD he asked to borrow $1, 000 to get back to the city where he's starting his new life....I gave him $600.
Don't be a doormat. If he makes twice what you do, he can learn to live more frugally. I wouldn't give him any more money, it's enabling. Maybe someone else can chime in here.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14