Originally Posted By: Mimi30
He makes double what I make so he takes care of his own debts and bills since he left.
I cover my own expenses as well.
He recently asked me for money when he ran low...I gave him $50.
The week after BD he asked to borrow $1, 000 to get back to the city where he's starting his new life....I gave him $600.


Don't be a doormat. If he makes twice what you do, he can learn to live more frugally. I wouldn't give him any more money, it's enabling. Maybe someone else can chime in here.


H: 29
WAXW: 30

Bomb Drop- 9/9/13
Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14
D Final- 5/21/14
XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14