Because his behaviour is a mix of guilt/shame/and stupidity I find it hard someone's. But I know I need to give him space if I ever want to see him come back.
If he asked to come back today I'd have to decline until he was ready to deal with his issues. The more I read about attachment disorder, the more I think it relates to him.
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13