He makes double what I make so he takes care of his own debts and bills since he left. I cover my own expenses as well. He recently asked me for money when he ran low...I gave him $50. The week after BD he asked to borrow $1, 000 to get back to the city where he's starting his new life....I gave him $600.
I assume he took the money from this policy b/c he basically wiped out our joint savings since BD. So this money was fix to get the savings back to where it was and he won't have to ask me for help anymore.
He plans to keep whatever is in our joint savings in the end. We have another savings with just my name on it (he didn't want his name on it so he woukdnt be tempted to ise it). I'm also the only one who has contributed to it...so he says I should be fine walking away with that.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
