I messed up big time. I engaged in a a few EA with a girl over the phone and then a girl I met online over skype. I did not want the feeling to end and my whole ridiculous craziness lasted about 3 years until I moved out a yr ago. My excuse was that I was Mr Mom and my wife was never there to take care of our D4 now. Of course there is no excuse to ever cheat. My EA turned PA when I met the girl after I moved on my own. I traveled to her and we met. I was sure I wanted to pursue the relationship, but my W and I never stopped spending time together and being intimate even though we were separated. My W suffered a great deal and was always wanting me to come back to her and our D, but I didn't want to hear it. The fact that she still was a workaholic and never cooked cleaned etc. just validated my stupid decisions.
