Oh I see, well yes I can understand that I was just thinking to prepare them before the party that's all, instead of just dropping them on it before the party. That way they've got a chance to tell people such as your W beforehand. I can understand that you want to tell the face to face though Ask the DB coach on Monday what he/she thinks you should do, or have you already made your mind up?
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I was just thinking to prepare them before the party that's all, instead of just dropping them on it before the party. That way they've got a chance to tell people such as your W beforehand. I can understand that you want to tell the face to face though 
