I think depression plays a big part in this too willbewell. I am sorry to hear that your S is struggling too. I hate what this does to the children.

Thanks say it! I still can't believe we were actually there...!

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home