Thanks for the advice. She out if the blue decided to do the dishes and ran up the kitchen the other night. I stayed out of the way and didn't react at all. Went on my nightly run and went to bed. Next morning I told her "Thank you for cleaning up the kitchen, it looks nice." I got a smart ass "Just doing my part" retort. I feel like I can't win. On top if it all, my job [censored] right now. I cannot get any support from her about it, so I struggle alone. I think I'm going to seek IC next week to help me. I just need more support. This community is great, but I need a face.


Both 40
T-22 M-18
S13
S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

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