I actually mentioned IC a couple of weeks ago in a VERY round-a-bout way, and W's excuse is that she won't have health insurance once we're divorced.. W is already on three anti-depressants.
Sorry, I've just realized there is nothing I can say or do - when she calls me and is like "I don't want divorce, and I love you" - it's like a man who lived through a grenade blast wishing his legs were back. Not gonna happen.