Sandi has given you a great assessment of your current reality.

The ultimatum card can only be played once. Like sandi said you MUST enforce the boundaries set or she will lose all respect for you.

Don't make decisions based on feelings. Sleep on it before acting.

have a recovery plan. enforce boundaries and make decisions based on your core beliefs.(knowing your core beliefs is essential)

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