I'm new here, but from what I have read, you are doing a good job. I will have to ask in my thread (once it opens and I see my posts) what is the step-by-step process. For example, from what it sounds like, your R currently has the looks of something that has been pulled back from the brink of D. What's next?
I'm not so sure we are out of the D yet. He simply does not talk about it anymore and doesn't seem to be communicating with OW. I wonder if it is because the baby is due in12 days and he is finally following what the MC has asked him to: discretion if he will continue with that or out of the house he goes. I also wonder if it is because SS11 is visiting. I'm not sure.
For now, my goals are:
- not talk about R or OW -- although I daydream to a smack him over the head with his damn iPad and then flush it if I see him talking with her.
