WR, Unless I miss my guess, your h has cashed the check and spent it. I seriously doubt that you'll see a dime of it, unless he's more rational than I thought.
I do hope that you and your sons can try to have a good weekend. You have been at it for a long time and it's time that the wind change course to more positive one for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
