I'm scared she's happy for me, because it seems like it will make it easier for her to leave me knowing I'm happy. ARGGHHH.
She has to see you happy before she will even begin to miss you. She will NEVER miss a sad, pathetic, desperate you. But a strong, independent, happy you? She may not miss that right away, but it'll make her think for sure. DB'ing has a cumulative effect over time, that's the way it works.
