Done it I bet he rings the house phone now, lol. He always rings me and asks me to open it for him to see what it is, so if it's important he can deal with it. I'll just let the house phone ring and then see who it is afterwards. I tell you this week has been so stressful, my IBS is playing up big time!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Can you turn the house phone's ringer off? On mine you can, so that way it will ring but you won't be able to hear it. Especially if your son is likely to ask why you're not answering the phone.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I'll just say I was doing something and I'll answer it in a bit. I could turn the ringer off, but then if anyone else tries to ring then I won't know if anyone's phoned. Does that make sense? I'm supposed to have caller display on my phone, but it's not working at the mo. Maybe I'll give the phone provider another call
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Pud, now you're going to be listing shows that I'll want to investigate and squeeze into my already packed viewing schedule. TTD and NQ are bad enough.
Lol MH At least you've got time this week
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
That's a good idea NQ, I'll send him a text then turn my phone off! I never thought of that, lol. Thanks also for your replies all of you It just shows how uptight I've been getting with this new sitch. Pud, sorry I've not heard of the show Orphan Black. I'll google it when I get a chance
Now, you just need a deep breath or two, and a large spritzer. Relax!!
Ok deep breaths and relax No spritzer for me yet, it's got to be wine o'clock first, lol. Got to keep a clear head whilst my son is still up. Then again... lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
The phone's got an answering machine You're right, this evening is going slooooow. Though it's less time til wine o'clock for me Sorry to rub it in
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I'm not worried about waiting til my son goes to bed before I grab a wine LOL. Good job too, as he will probably be up until 11 tonight - it's Friday and he doesn't have to get up for school.
And, with OW bringing H round the house after work today to pick up his tools, there's a pretty good chance I'll need a large one fairly soon after getting home. At least I've got a bottle in the fridge chilling when I'm ready.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
You're right I just like having a wine when he's asleep as I can really chill out then My son can't stay up late because he'll still wake up at 7am and then he'll be tired for the rest of the day and make my life a misery, lol. A lot of people don't understand this about him, but it's part of his autism that he feels he must get up at 7!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!