Rosa, Happy belated Birthday! I know two more people who had birthdays yesterday.
In your previous post you mentioned that H said that when he flirts with his language exchange Russian women, they take him seriously. And now, he said that RT’s willingness to break up a 38 year marriage is explained by the fact that she is Russian. I don’t know about this language exchange club, but to me it looks like some way for Russian women to connect with American (and other) men. There are millions of Russian women who do not get involved with married men. I also think that your H was actually looking for these types of women who would give him special attention and admiration, he was seeking validation and went to the right place to get it. I know that there is a stereotype of Russian women developed over the past years, but I just had to put my 2 cents here. I understand your frustration too. I myself sometimes have a hard time to not stereotype all Mexican women because my H tried to have an affair with one. I just always remind myself that I have Mexican friends and they are all people with good morals.
Your H definitely has very thick rose colored glasses on his head. I just hope that they fade over time, the sooner, the better, and he will see RT in clear day light.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
