Originally Posted By: Whiterose

I won't say anything to S14. I noticed h messaged him yesterday, and called, both ignored. Wonder when H will realize that his sons are in a state and need a dad not a text friend?


My H and S16 are the same way right now. Even after S went to a therapy, H shows concern but makes no additional effort to make it safe for his S to speak to him about tender things. H thinks of him more as a buddy than a father. ICK. They are only thinking of THEIR hurt and THEIR pain, even their kids don't matter. REALLY sad.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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