I feel like I'm shifting gears and reacting to every movement and every word on a daily basis.
Work on not allowing her actions/feelings determine your course. Decide who you are, better still who you want to be, and work on being that person consistently.
No walking around on eggshells. Be confident, be strong. You can do this.
We all want our W's. The fact is we don't NEED them.
Don't be hard on yourself when you have trouble doing the above. We all do, but it does get easier. Dust yourself off and get back on course.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl