My H texted me the a few days ago to tell me I will see a large sum of money come into our joint checking account and he be paying of some of his bills with some of it and putting the resf into savings.....he said he was just letting me k ow so I wouldn't be alarmed ans he'd explain later.
Today I saw the money in the bank, it was a disbursement from a pension/retirement company. So I assume my H asked for his retirement funds with this company to be released to him.
I don't have much knowledge in this area...so I was wondering if anyone could tell me if this is "normal" for people to do? Are there any negatives of doing this?
Also another random question....I believe when my H started his new job after BD he filled out his tax docs as not married....even though we are still married (we aren't legally seperated either) and he makes more money. When I started my new job I filled out my tax doc as married but with no dependants and as the spouse making less. Could something negative happen to me b/c he has claimed not married on his tax documents?
Or is none of this my business?
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
