I think I need to be more patient and loving and let her find her own way through this.
Dingo, IMHO this is where you need to be ^^^.
That said I feel that you can accomplish what Sandi has said while doing that, it isn't an easy task, especially if your inpatient.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy