Job, but of course I can't say anything about that, right? No amount of reasoning will turn her mind around, correct? The longer I take in fighting it, the more I become the cause of her problems. The sooner I say, "OK, you're right, we should D" the sooner W turns her focus to herself. This is my current internal challenge. It's like, the sooner we're D, the sooner she'll realize it doesn't really fix anything other than her being able to be more in the open with her A partner.
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"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
