Suckerpunch (the process)

[labug]

And this is right where your W has been: {s}he made a mistake and wanted to return to our family, I wouldn't be able to get past the damage that has been done.

I hope you don't come back with "But she's the one who left the family!" There are many ways to leave a R, I left mine in many ways but was still living in the same house, sleeping in the same bed.

You have a choice hold on to the hurt or recognize it, be honest with yourself and use it to grow.