Argh. The past three or four times you've reported something here, someone challenged you, and you wrote back perfectly good reasons why you did it, followed by, "should I have done that? what should I have done instead, do you think?"
... I would have loved to see you tell (us) to shove it.
To tell us that you are capable of standing up to your dad in a loving way and did, to explain how, and to assert that YOU know you did the right thing, and everyone else is welcome to their opinions. It would be a start of something different for you.
Stop caring so much what we think, and you might learn to care less what W thinks. BE YOU. You know where you want to go with yourself, and you'll get there if you start with one step and then another.
Tell me to mind my own business.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
