JFun51, welcome. Sorry you have to be here. BTW, are we married to the same W? Seriously, it's so crazy how the stories all line up. Has your W discussed leaving yet or is she happy freeloading for now? Just try to remember that as strange as it is, this is hard on them too. They're so confused right now and really trying to figure themselves out. The challenge is they often take unhealthy paths. We just need to let them go. Nothing we can do to fix them.
ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
