Hi 3,

I think your apology was beautiful. You did not apologize for your actions, but the actual HURT you caused and that is a very powerful thing.

As far is it not being db'ing, you have to gauge the timing of when things are appropriate and I think you did this at the very time it was needed. I think you handled all the conversations remarkably well. I am impressed.

Now, let your H sit on it, as he probably needs to absorb what you have said. Keep doing the great things you are doing for yourself. Your happiness is showing!

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.