H was at a work event with OW and they were drinking (H left me on his work automatic emails so I kept getting the evite and reminders even though I knew I was not welcome). I had responded that I had a work event so could not attend (which was true and I just wanted to stop getting the reminders that I had not replied). A definite improvement for me since I previously would have told H that I was upset by the situation. I did a pretty good job of keeping busy and not thinking about it. But man does this situation suck. It is tiring working to be a better person and standing for my marriage.
